Monday, February 14, 2011

I received an update on Dinh.

The information about suicide was incorrect. Thank God. Now they are saying it was likely an untreated ulcer that killed Dinh. He was even engaged to be married and about to start a new, promising job. I am just relieved that he was not lonely at the time of his death and that it was not suicide.

18 comments:

Vix said...

That makes his untimely death less sad. I'd hate to think of someone being so desperate. xxx

Steph(anie) said...

I am glad it wasn't suicide after all.

Mr.Mischief said...

Jeez...that's what almost did me in, my untreated ulcer-if I hadn't been at work when my artery ruptured from it I would have been in the ground the past four years..still, sad news :/

Sarcastic Bastard said...

Mr. M.,
I'm really glad you are still alive and kicking.

Thanks Steph and Vix. I appreciate the kind words.

adrienne said...

xo

Spadoman said...

Positive energy sent your way and to the friends and family Dihn left behind.

Peace.

Unknown said...

I am sorry for your loss, Bastard. I hope Dinh died peacefully.

Sarah xxx

the guy in the silk taffeta dress said...

I'm so sorry to be reading this about your friend.
Life cheats us all too much.
Take good care of yourself.
all the best,
j.

BMelonsLemonade said...

I can relate to that. It is still sad, but at least you know he was not suffering alone. I lost a friend many, many years ago to an overdose. This friend used crystal meth, and I was so upset to think of him having a heart attack or something. For him to have known he was dying, as his heart beat out of control. The terror! Then, we found out he actually died of a heroin overdose, and no one even knew he had ever done heroin. But, I was so relieved to know he just fell asleep, and slipped away in a pure painless state. It was a much more peaceful way to go, and for some reason I felt much better that it was heroin that killed him, and not meth. Dear sweet, Seth...he is still missed so many years later.

Sarcastic Bastard said...

Thanks for all of your kind thoughts. They are so appreciated.

BMelons,
So sorry about Seth.

Love to all,

SB

Anonymous said...

I am so very sorry for your loss.
X David

drollgirl said...

i am so sorry you lost your friend. and i am relieved he did not commit suicide, as that is one of the hardest things to come to grips with in life. it is devastating to lose someone you love, and suicide makes it about a billion times worse.

Christina @ Fashion's Most Wanted said...

Dear SB, oh that's terrible about your friend. It's better to know it wasn't suicide. What a shame.

Thinking of you my friend. Love you loads, C xx

Chic Mama said...

Really sorry yo read about your friend. Take care, thinking of you. x

Jeannie said...

Much better news although still very sad.

Leslie said...

I'm so sorry about your friend. Happy though for you and his family that it wasn't suicide.

Syd said...

I am sorry that he died but thankful it was not suicide.

Mj Rains said...

Still sad to hear of his death, but relieved that it wasn't a suicide.